Behind the One Behind the Frontline: Being the Child of a Healthcare Professional during a Pandemic BY SARAH CHAUDHRY

The most stressful aspect of being the child of a surgeon during the pandemic is, no doubt, fear for my father's well-being. Every time he goes to work, the possibility of him contracting the virus permeates my thoughts. I always think of his health, but this pandemic adds another level. He is not the only person I worry about, as the new infections and the death toll rises each moment. We've been especially vigilant, but what will be when precautions are no longer enough?

Behind the Frontline: Being the Child of a Healthcare Professional

BY SARAH CHAUDHRY 

Following the COVID-19 pandemic, recognition of the importance of healthcare workers’ contributions to society is undoubtedly taking place. Since working from home is not a feasible option, healthcare workers are at high risk of contracting the virus and possibly spreading it to their families. This time is especially daunting for healthcare workers, but an overlooked angle is what it must be like for families and loved ones of those working behind the frontline. 

First of all, I have the utmost appreciation for my father. ‘Essential’ is an understatement to his importance not only as a life-saving surgeon but also as a father. His place in our society and my family is one of immense significance. The honor may seem appealing, but working as a surgeon comes with its dangers, exposing him to various infirmities. His profession requires him on the frontline of the battle against the COVID-19 pandemic. He is at a high risk of contracting the virus and possibly spreading it to our family because of this.

As the daughter of a surgeon, my point-of-view is from behind the frontline. Especially at this time, the anxiety can be overwhelming. Aside from his long and stressful hours, my father must now keep his distance when he gets home. Physical contact is limited. These are all reasonable precautions, considering his possible exposure to the coronavirus, but they can add stress, as anyone responsible knows. 

Another strain is frustration — towards those who refuse to respect the safety of others, those who hinder and belittle healthcare professionals, those who make this harder for everyone. This frustration is not limited to healthcare professionals, but it especially stings when you’re fighting the battle or even just watching it up close.

The most stressful aspect of being the child of a surgeon during the pandemic is, no doubt, fear for my father’s well-being. Every time he goes to work, the possibility of him contracting the virus permeates my thoughts. I always think of his health, but this pandemic adds another level. He is not the only person I worry about, as the new infections and the death toll rises each moment. We’ve been especially vigilant, but what will be when precautions are no longer enough? 

My father is a great man. He has saved countless lives, including mine and my family’s. People who are not on the frontlines can also help. Being responsible, informed, and careful lessens the aversions brought on by the pandemic, therefore helping people like my father fight the battle against COVID-19.